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		<title>Brainwave Entrainment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 00:56:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3101" title="binaural_beats" src="http://working-on.me/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/binaural_beats-300x200.jpg" alt="binaural beat" width="300" height="200" />Brainwave entrainment is not something new. Many people claim that it's been used for hundreds, maybe even thousands of years. Monks and spiritualist have used chants and bells to invoke deeper prayer time and meditation for centuries. It is new as far as the way we use it today with technology.

It's only recently, in the last hundred years or so, that we've been capable of tuning in to and reproducing certain frequencies with modern equipment. That doesn't mean the frequencies weren't always there, we just didn't have the ability to pick up on them.

These new techniques use sound and frequency in the way of <strong><a title="brainwave entrainment" href="http://working-on.me/go/brainwave-entrainment/	" target="_blank">binaural beats</a></strong>,...]]></description>
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		<title>Can Your Expectations Shape My Behavior?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 19:21:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I talk about people's stereotypes about singles, one of the reactions I sometimes get is, "So what?" Why, the skeptics are asking, should I care about what other people think, even if it is negative and wrong.

So suppose I meet someone for the first time, let's say a man, who believes that single people are miserable and lonely and want nothing more than to become unsingle. He has no particular animus toward me or toward single people in general - he just expects single people to have certain emotions and motivations. Those are his beliefs. Would he behave toward me any differently than if he did not have those beliefs? Specifically, might he somehow get me to behave in...]]></description>
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		<title>Resisting Expectations During the Holidays and Every Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 04:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I posed the question, "<a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/200911/can-your-expectations-shape-my-behavior" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/200911/can-your-expectations-shape-my-behavior?referer=');">Can your expectations shape my behavior</a>," I had no idea how much the issue would resonate with readers. One after another, they shared their experiences of feeling boxed into a corner by other people's expectations of what they should want from their lives. There were so many telling discussions and suggestions that I just had to return to the topic.

What can we do to stand up for the lives we have chosen, proudly and unapologetically? The question may be especially pressing with the holidays approaching. Those are times when Martian Bachelor's suggestion - "Get better friends and acquaintances!" - isn't so readily attainable. Holiday dinners, parties, and get-togethers are often sprinkled with people whom...]]></description>
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